Angola's Social Welfare Ministry staff this Friday, in Luanda, will present their yearend compliments to the incumbent minister, Joao Baptista Kussumua, reads a document from the institution.
During the ceremony, the minister will inform the workers on the Angolan government's ongoing actions and others for 2008 which are mainly relating to children, senior citizens, disabled people and the sustainable reintegration of Angolan refugees.
Joao Baptista Kussumua will also speak on the social, professional and economic reintegration of ex-soldiers from UNITA, MPLA and FNLA parties, as well as on the demining process taking place throughout the country.
The ceremony will be attended by national directors, department heads and general-directors of public institutes functioning under the umbrella of the Social Welfare and Reintegration Ministry.
http://allafrica.com/stories/200712280529.html
Saturday, December 29, 2007
New Britain Resident Honored In Ceremony
John Gwiazda, a resident at the Jerome Home in New Britain, was recently honored at a medal ceremony. Gwiazda served in World War II as a pilot for the U.S. Marine Corps.
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Six Plainville High School students were selected to perform in the Connecticut Music Educator's Northern Regional Music Festival. Jeffrey Ciarcia, Richard Reola and Kendra Valliere will perform in the chorus. Patrick Haggerty will perform with the orchestra. Marc Levandowski will perform with the jazz band and Jaclyn Neveu will perform with the concert band. The festival concert will be held Jan. 19 at New Britain High School.
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Elsie Patton recently joined Loureiro Engineering Associates Inc. (LEA) of Plainville as technical director of regulations and permitting. Prior to joining LEA, she had been employed at the state Department of Environmental Protection for 26 years.
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The Cooperative Nursery School of New Britain held a coat drive at First Church Congregational on Corbin Avenue. Lisa Leavenworth and Cindy Ferraguto coordinated the event. The coats were donated to "Button Up Connecticut" and later distributed to charitable organizations throughout the state.
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Fran Pitaro, a Bristol native, currently serving as the Chesterfield County, Va. deputy county administrator for management services ,will retire Jan. 1, 2008. Pitaro will relocate to Colorado Springs, Colo., where he will work as a consultant with Zelos, a firm that specializes in helping government agencies achieve better results through performance management.
http://www.courant.com/news/local/hc-faces1229.artdec29,0,6512221.story
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Six Plainville High School students were selected to perform in the Connecticut Music Educator's Northern Regional Music Festival. Jeffrey Ciarcia, Richard Reola and Kendra Valliere will perform in the chorus. Patrick Haggerty will perform with the orchestra. Marc Levandowski will perform with the jazz band and Jaclyn Neveu will perform with the concert band. The festival concert will be held Jan. 19 at New Britain High School.
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Elsie Patton recently joined Loureiro Engineering Associates Inc. (LEA) of Plainville as technical director of regulations and permitting. Prior to joining LEA, she had been employed at the state Department of Environmental Protection for 26 years.
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The Cooperative Nursery School of New Britain held a coat drive at First Church Congregational on Corbin Avenue. Lisa Leavenworth and Cindy Ferraguto coordinated the event. The coats were donated to "Button Up Connecticut" and later distributed to charitable organizations throughout the state.
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Fran Pitaro, a Bristol native, currently serving as the Chesterfield County, Va. deputy county administrator for management services ,will retire Jan. 1, 2008. Pitaro will relocate to Colorado Springs, Colo., where he will work as a consultant with Zelos, a firm that specializes in helping government agencies achieve better results through performance management.
http://www.courant.com/news/local/hc-faces1229.artdec29,0,6512221.story
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Ceremony to introduce kids' program
A program to help the city's children opens at 10:30 a.m. today with a ceremony in the National Liberty Museum, 321 Chestnut St.
Called KidZone Philadelphia, it is a 10-year initiative of Foundations Inc. that will be pioneered in Northwest Philadelphia and will spearhead a movement to unite communities throughout the city to ensure the success of future generations. Foundations Inc. is a nonprofit, educational organization that manages several Philadelpiha public schools.
About 400 people from Philadelphia and surrounding areas are expected to turn out for the ceremonial launch of KidZone, which will be located at 7157 Ogontz Ave.
Along with a number of special guests, including Gov. Rendell and Mayor Street, others expected to attend include civic-policy makers, opinion leaders in the field of children, youth and family services, leaders from numerous neighborhood organizations and children and families from four schools in ...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_km4470/is_200604/ai_n16312799
Called KidZone Philadelphia, it is a 10-year initiative of Foundations Inc. that will be pioneered in Northwest Philadelphia and will spearhead a movement to unite communities throughout the city to ensure the success of future generations. Foundations Inc. is a nonprofit, educational organization that manages several Philadelpiha public schools.
About 400 people from Philadelphia and surrounding areas are expected to turn out for the ceremonial launch of KidZone, which will be located at 7157 Ogontz Ave.
Along with a number of special guests, including Gov. Rendell and Mayor Street, others expected to attend include civic-policy makers, opinion leaders in the field of children, youth and family services, leaders from numerous neighborhood organizations and children and families from four schools in ...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_km4470/is_200604/ai_n16312799
Fencl ceremony bittersweet
The George Fencl Award ceremony is usually a light-hearted event - an evening filled with plenty of laughter, gratitude and Kodak moments involving many of the city's finest.
During last night's ceremony, held at Swan Caterers in South Philadelphia, the jovial atmosphere was tinged with sadness, as tribute was paid to slain Officer Gary Skerski.
Tears flowed when the Fencl Committee presented Skerski's family with the first-ever "Spirit of Service" award. Skerski, 46, was gunned down responding to a bar robbery in the Lower Northeast on May 8.
Fighting back tears, Skerski's wife, Anne, spoke softly as a roomful of cops and media members gave her a standing ovation. "I just want to say it's an honor to receive this award for Gary, because he meant so much to us and to everyone else," she said, as her son, Robert, 13, and daughter Nicole, 10, looked ...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_km4470/is_200606/ai_n16471684
During last night's ceremony, held at Swan Caterers in South Philadelphia, the jovial atmosphere was tinged with sadness, as tribute was paid to slain Officer Gary Skerski.
Tears flowed when the Fencl Committee presented Skerski's family with the first-ever "Spirit of Service" award. Skerski, 46, was gunned down responding to a bar robbery in the Lower Northeast on May 8.
Fighting back tears, Skerski's wife, Anne, spoke softly as a roomful of cops and media members gave her a standing ovation. "I just want to say it's an honor to receive this award for Gary, because he meant so much to us and to everyone else," she said, as her son, Robert, 13, and daughter Nicole, 10, looked ...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_km4470/is_200606/ai_n16471684
Is this Pope John Paul II waving from beyond the grave? Vatican TV director says yes
This fiery figure is being hailed as Pope John Paul II making an appearance beyond the grave.
The image, said by believers to show the Holy Father with his right hand raised in blessing, was spotted during a ceremony in Poland to mark the second anniversary of his death.
Details appeared on the Vatican News Service, a TV station in Rome which specialises in religious news broadcasts.
Service director Jarek Cielecki, a Polish priest and close friend of John Paul II, travelled to Poland after hearing an onlooker had photographed the image.
Father Cielecki said he was convinced the picture showed the former pontiff.
"You can see the image of a person in the flames and I think it is the servant of God, Pope John Paul II," he said.
The pictures were being broadcast continuously on Italian TV and also posted on religious websites, some of which crashed as thousands logged on to see for themselves the eerie figure formed by the flames.
The bonfire was lit during a service at Beskid Zywiecki, close to John Paul's birthplace at Katowice, southern Poland, on April 2 - the second anniversary of his death.
Hundreds had attended the ceremony. Gregorz Lukasik, the Polish man who took the photographs, said: "It was only afterwards when I got home and looked at the pictures that I realised I had something.
"I showed them to my brother and sister and they, like me, were convinced the flames had formed the image of Pope John Paul II.
"I was so happy with the picture that I showed it to our local bishop who said that Pope John Paul had made many pilgrimages during his life and he was still making them in death."
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/worldnews.html?in_article_id=487764&in_page_id=1811
The image, said by believers to show the Holy Father with his right hand raised in blessing, was spotted during a ceremony in Poland to mark the second anniversary of his death.
Details appeared on the Vatican News Service, a TV station in Rome which specialises in religious news broadcasts.
Service director Jarek Cielecki, a Polish priest and close friend of John Paul II, travelled to Poland after hearing an onlooker had photographed the image.
Father Cielecki said he was convinced the picture showed the former pontiff.
"You can see the image of a person in the flames and I think it is the servant of God, Pope John Paul II," he said.
The pictures were being broadcast continuously on Italian TV and also posted on religious websites, some of which crashed as thousands logged on to see for themselves the eerie figure formed by the flames.
The bonfire was lit during a service at Beskid Zywiecki, close to John Paul's birthplace at Katowice, southern Poland, on April 2 - the second anniversary of his death.
Hundreds had attended the ceremony. Gregorz Lukasik, the Polish man who took the photographs, said: "It was only afterwards when I got home and looked at the pictures that I realised I had something.
"I showed them to my brother and sister and they, like me, were convinced the flames had formed the image of Pope John Paul II.
"I was so happy with the picture that I showed it to our local bishop who said that Pope John Paul had made many pilgrimages during his life and he was still making them in death."
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/worldnews.html?in_article_id=487764&in_page_id=1811
Bloomington Herald-Times articles
IU cutting 47 jobs on campus; Move is necessary to pay for staff, faculty pay raises, keep top faculty here, officials say, citing tight budget, pressure to limit tuition increases
By Steve Hinnefeld
May 4, 2006
Indiana University is cutting 47 jobs on the Bloomington campus to balance its budget and pay for salary and benefit increases, IU officials said.
A majority of the jobs will be eliminated through attrition, but there will be some layoffs, Michael McRobbie, the Bloomington interim provost, told IU trustees today.
"No one welcomes having to make these decisions," he said.
Staff will get pay raises of between 2.5 percent and 3 percent. For Bloomington faculty, salary increases will average 4 percent — boosted by $1.4 million allocated to keep top faculty from leaving for other schools.
"These would be our very best faculty: top research performers, national academies members, people we can't afford to lose," McRobbie said.
IU officials said the cuts are brought on by reductions in state funding and political pressure to limit tuition increases. Undergraduate tuition and fees for IU Bloomington will rise 4.9 percent this year. Graduate and professional students face steeper increases.
IU officials explained the $2.32 billion university budget for 2006-07 Thursday to the trustees' finance and audit committee. Trustees are expected to approve it at their business meeting today in the Indiana Memorial Union.
Judy Palmer, the IU vice president for finance, said it's a tight budget that forces campuses to find savings and in some cases to rely on reserves.
"We've drawn the safety net a little tighter," she said.
McRobbie said results at IU Bloomington will include:
• More classes will be taught by part-time faculty.
• Maintenance spending will be cut by $400,000 at a time when many buildings are showing their age.
• An adult fitness program is being eliminated, saving $200,000.
• The Law School froze spending for admissions and career services.
• The School of Education shelved plans for a P-16 education center.
• The Optometry School cut its equipment budget.
Administrators said they're trying to manage the budget without hurting research and teaching, but trustees said across-the-board cuts will work for only so long. Trustee Tom Reilly said IU may have to look at eliminating programs — as well as increasing tuition.
"You're talking about double-digit tuition increases no matter what you do, but that's not all you do," he said.
Pat Shoulders, another trustee, said state officials shouldn't expect universities to fuel the knowledge economy without money. "We ought to flat-line their expectations," he said.
But Reilly said government leaders "really think we're on the fat side" and are likely to cut deeper in the budget the Legislature approves in 2007.
"The footnote is, the party's over after this budget," he said.
Early start of garage meeting called illegal
by Steve Hinnefeld
May 5, 2006
Buff Brown left work early Thursday to hear the Indiana University trustees talk about building a parking garage south of campus.
But not early enough. The trustees, without giving notice, started the meeting of their facilities committee at least a half-hour earlier than scheduled.
By the time Brown arrived, the panel had approved the garage at the corner of Atwater and Fess avenues. The full board is scheduled to vote today.
Brown, an opponent of project, was miffed.
"I think that they have an obligation to the public to notify them of these decisions and to make the decisions when they say they will," he said.
IU officials said the trustees finished an earlier meeting sooner than expected, and board president Steve Ferguson convened the facilities committee to save some time. The meeting was posted to start at 4:15 p.m. It apparently started by 3:45.
Steve Key, counsel for the Hoosier State Press Association, said what the trustees did violated the state Open Door Law, which requires that the time and place of public meetings be posted 48 hours in advance.
The trustees don't routinely take public comment, and garage opponents wouldn't have been allowed to speak. But Key said that doesn't matter.
"The idea is, you give people an opportunity to observe and record" the meeting, he said.
Key said people could challenge the changed meeting time in court. They could ask a judge to order IU to not violate the law again. They could even argue that any action resulting from the meeting - such as final approval today of the parking garage - is illegal.
IU spokesman Larry MacIntyre said that if the meeting wasn't legal, it was an innocent mistake.
"It certainly was inadvertent," he said. "It only happened because the board was trying to work a whole lot of things into one day, including a bus tour of some university facilities."
Trustees discussed the garage and heard objections from Elm Heights residents in November, when they approved its design. The $10.9 million, 5 1/2-level structure will provide space for 560 vehicles and IU Parking Operations offices. Officials want to start construction this summer.
Trustees told to spend in order to double minority students
http://newsinfo.iu.edu/news/page/normal/3436.html
By Steve Hinnefeld
May 4, 2006
Indiana University is cutting 47 jobs on the Bloomington campus to balance its budget and pay for salary and benefit increases, IU officials said.
A majority of the jobs will be eliminated through attrition, but there will be some layoffs, Michael McRobbie, the Bloomington interim provost, told IU trustees today.
"No one welcomes having to make these decisions," he said.
Staff will get pay raises of between 2.5 percent and 3 percent. For Bloomington faculty, salary increases will average 4 percent — boosted by $1.4 million allocated to keep top faculty from leaving for other schools.
"These would be our very best faculty: top research performers, national academies members, people we can't afford to lose," McRobbie said.
IU officials said the cuts are brought on by reductions in state funding and political pressure to limit tuition increases. Undergraduate tuition and fees for IU Bloomington will rise 4.9 percent this year. Graduate and professional students face steeper increases.
IU officials explained the $2.32 billion university budget for 2006-07 Thursday to the trustees' finance and audit committee. Trustees are expected to approve it at their business meeting today in the Indiana Memorial Union.
Judy Palmer, the IU vice president for finance, said it's a tight budget that forces campuses to find savings and in some cases to rely on reserves.
"We've drawn the safety net a little tighter," she said.
McRobbie said results at IU Bloomington will include:
• More classes will be taught by part-time faculty.
• Maintenance spending will be cut by $400,000 at a time when many buildings are showing their age.
• An adult fitness program is being eliminated, saving $200,000.
• The Law School froze spending for admissions and career services.
• The School of Education shelved plans for a P-16 education center.
• The Optometry School cut its equipment budget.
Administrators said they're trying to manage the budget without hurting research and teaching, but trustees said across-the-board cuts will work for only so long. Trustee Tom Reilly said IU may have to look at eliminating programs — as well as increasing tuition.
"You're talking about double-digit tuition increases no matter what you do, but that's not all you do," he said.
Pat Shoulders, another trustee, said state officials shouldn't expect universities to fuel the knowledge economy without money. "We ought to flat-line their expectations," he said.
But Reilly said government leaders "really think we're on the fat side" and are likely to cut deeper in the budget the Legislature approves in 2007.
"The footnote is, the party's over after this budget," he said.
Early start of garage meeting called illegal
by Steve Hinnefeld
May 5, 2006
Buff Brown left work early Thursday to hear the Indiana University trustees talk about building a parking garage south of campus.
But not early enough. The trustees, without giving notice, started the meeting of their facilities committee at least a half-hour earlier than scheduled.
By the time Brown arrived, the panel had approved the garage at the corner of Atwater and Fess avenues. The full board is scheduled to vote today.
Brown, an opponent of project, was miffed.
"I think that they have an obligation to the public to notify them of these decisions and to make the decisions when they say they will," he said.
IU officials said the trustees finished an earlier meeting sooner than expected, and board president Steve Ferguson convened the facilities committee to save some time. The meeting was posted to start at 4:15 p.m. It apparently started by 3:45.
Steve Key, counsel for the Hoosier State Press Association, said what the trustees did violated the state Open Door Law, which requires that the time and place of public meetings be posted 48 hours in advance.
The trustees don't routinely take public comment, and garage opponents wouldn't have been allowed to speak. But Key said that doesn't matter.
"The idea is, you give people an opportunity to observe and record" the meeting, he said.
Key said people could challenge the changed meeting time in court. They could ask a judge to order IU to not violate the law again. They could even argue that any action resulting from the meeting - such as final approval today of the parking garage - is illegal.
IU spokesman Larry MacIntyre said that if the meeting wasn't legal, it was an innocent mistake.
"It certainly was inadvertent," he said. "It only happened because the board was trying to work a whole lot of things into one day, including a bus tour of some university facilities."
Trustees discussed the garage and heard objections from Elm Heights residents in November, when they approved its design. The $10.9 million, 5 1/2-level structure will provide space for 560 vehicles and IU Parking Operations offices. Officials want to start construction this summer.
Trustees told to spend in order to double minority students
http://newsinfo.iu.edu/news/page/normal/3436.html
People’s Choice Awards gets canned
Red carpet cancelled amidst writers’ strike
The People’s Choice Awards ceremony, which was set to take place Jan. 8, has been cancelled.
It is reported that the show won’t be rolling out the red carpet this year for the annual live ceremony. Instead, a pre-recorded taping will be aired that evening.
CBS will broadcast the new magazine-style format, which will include previously announced host Queen Latifah. “The show will go on,” CBS said in a statement. “The People's Choice tradition on CBS will continue and we plan to introduce some new ideas in the process.”
The 34th annual awards show will broadcast pre-recorded acceptance speeches from stars receiving awards as voted by fans.
Awards spokesperson Jeannie Tharrington told The Associated Press the changes have been brought on by the two-month-long Writers Guild of America strike. It was unknown whether presenters and nominees would show up for the ceremony, which has been boycotted by striking writers.
"We realize there are pressing issues facing the entertainment industry, including the WGA strike, and out of respect for everyone involved this provided an opportunity to pilot a new format this year," she said.
Fans can still vote here for their favourite entertainers, movies, songs and TV series. Voting ends Dec. 31.
http://tvguide.sympatico.msn.ca/TVNews/Articles/071220_peoples_choice_SZ
The People’s Choice Awards ceremony, which was set to take place Jan. 8, has been cancelled.
It is reported that the show won’t be rolling out the red carpet this year for the annual live ceremony. Instead, a pre-recorded taping will be aired that evening.
CBS will broadcast the new magazine-style format, which will include previously announced host Queen Latifah. “The show will go on,” CBS said in a statement. “The People's Choice tradition on CBS will continue and we plan to introduce some new ideas in the process.”
The 34th annual awards show will broadcast pre-recorded acceptance speeches from stars receiving awards as voted by fans.
Awards spokesperson Jeannie Tharrington told The Associated Press the changes have been brought on by the two-month-long Writers Guild of America strike. It was unknown whether presenters and nominees would show up for the ceremony, which has been boycotted by striking writers.
"We realize there are pressing issues facing the entertainment industry, including the WGA strike, and out of respect for everyone involved this provided an opportunity to pilot a new format this year," she said.
Fans can still vote here for their favourite entertainers, movies, songs and TV series. Voting ends Dec. 31.
http://tvguide.sympatico.msn.ca/TVNews/Articles/071220_peoples_choice_SZ
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Traditional Javanese Wedding Ceremony - Javanese Wedding Ideas
The nation of Indonesia is a land of many cultures. There are thought to be more than three hundred languages and cultures that make up the lives of the two hundred million people living there.
Indonesia herself is made up of more than 13,677 separate islands. Because of the wide variety of cultures, this has made an impact on ceremonies of marriage that are performed there. Every Indonesian wedding has a particular ceremony that is based on the family's cultural beliefs. The ceremony of marriage is not just a joining of two people, but a bond between the two families as well.
Before the Wedding
It is said that the mutual and sincere love that exists between a man and woman should ideally end in marriage. There are places in Indonesia where a couple marries because their parents wish it or because they themselves do. An ancient proverb of Java says, "Love grows as you get more used to each other." This is a lesson we can take for the present.
The Siraman Ceremony of Marriage
The word Siraman in English can be translated to mean to take a bath. The couple participating in this ritual strive to clean their bodies and souls. This ritual usually takes place in the afternoon, the day before, at the house of the bride for her, and at his home for the groom. The people who participate in bathing the couple is also very important. Elder woman are especially prized for the impeccable behavior and morals they display. When giving Siraman, there are usually up to only seven people involved.
Another important aspect of this Javanese ritual is the offering or the Sajen. The meaning of this is deep and symbolic. It is the request for protection from the Creator, our God. It is the way that ancestors are remembered so their souls live in eternal peace and to ask them for their blessings.
Find Out More
A Javanese wedding ceremony is rich in symbolism and rituals and it a beautiful event in which to participate. If you are interested in finding out more about the cultural traditions along with the proper rituals that accompany it, do your research on the internet or by asking your friends and relatives of Indonesian descent. It will surely please the families involved as well as the couple who are ready to take their marriage vows.
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Greek Orthodox Wedding Ceremony - What To Expect
Most people's idea of a Greek Orthodox wedding ceremony comes from the hit movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding." Of course the traditions and the ceremony are far deeper than was shown on the big screen. The faith of the Greek Orthodoxy is very old and the wedding ceremony is a beautiful event in the life of the bride and groom.
One thing that should be realized is that the Greek Orthodox wedding ceremony is filled with symbolism. The wedding ceremony you see today is the same ceremony that has been practiced by the Greek Orthodoxy for hundreds of years. The biggest difference in a Greek ceremony and a traditional wedding ceremony is that the bride and groom don't exchange vows. Their mere presence in the church together shows that they have taken the sacrament of marriage very seriously.
The Start of the Wedding
Most Greek Orthodox weddings take place in the summer. It is typical for the guests at the wedding to wait along with the groom outside until the arrival of the bride. In Greece, it is common practice for wedding ceremonies to be scheduled back to back. This allows guests who are waiting to attend a ceremony to mingle with the guests departing from the wedding previously.
The groom awaits his bride with a bit of sweat on his brow as he holds the bouquet he will present to his intended. Once he turns over the bouquet to the bride, they then enter the church and the guests follow behind. Unlike conventional western weddings, there is no separation of the guests as to who sits on the side of the bride and who will be seated on the groom's side. Everyone sits wherever they can find a seat and when the ceremony is held in small venues, there are those who prefer to stand where they can have a first-rate view of the event.
The Betrothal and the Ceremony
There are two parts to the ceremony of a Greek Orthodox wedding. The first part is called the Service of Betrothal. The marrying couple exchanges their rings as the focal point of the Service of the Betrothal. The next part is the Ceremony of the Sacrament of Marriage. This part of the service has several aspects such as prayers and the joining of the right hands of both the bride and groom by the attending priest. Their hands will remain entwined for the rest of the ceremony to symbolize the newly wedded couple's union.
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Ideas For A Non Religious Wedding Ceremony
Let's face it, not everybody is into a church wedding or a religious ceremony. There are many people that want to get married without the religious trappings and traditions, but don't want to settle for a justice of the peace at City Hall. If this sounds like you and your intended, read on for some innovative ideas for a wedding ceremony that will linger in your guest's memories for years to come.
How About the Beach?
You can think about having your wedding at sunset on a beautiful, soft, sand beach. You can have your beach wedding somewhere that is near to you or you can opt to travel to another venue.You can be married on the beach in such breathtaking places as North or South Carolina with a traditional southern hospitality, you can say your vows on a beach on the California Coast with the Pacific Ocean crashing against the shore, or you can travel to a more exotic destination such as Hawaii or the Caribbean.
How About a Theme Wedding?
Ideas that will tie-in with yours and your fiancé's interests are numerous. If you both love to bungee jump, you can think of declaring your love for one another on top of the world and take the plunge when you are pronounced man and wife. If you like to dive, perhaps you can find an officiate that will be happy to join you together under the sea. Using your imagination and your creative flair will have you coming up with countless ideas.
It Doesn't Matter Where You Marry, It's Who You Marry
As long as you and your betrothed are in agreement, there is no reason you should limit your wedding to a church or a religious setting. The most important thing to remember is that your wedding day should please the happy couple. You need not worry about conventions and expectations when you are marrying the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
The only thing that needs to concern you is ensuring that the person you choose to officiate at your wedding ceremony has the proper licenses needed in order to declare you are man and wife. After all, you want to be sure that you are legally married, so taking the time to see credentials should be a top priority before you say, "I do."
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African Wedding Ceremony Ideas - African Wedding Ideas
If your heritage as an African-American is important to both you and your fiancé, you may want to incorporate some of those customs into one of the most special days you will spend as a couple. There are many facets to an African wedding ceremony and deciding what aspects to include in your wedding day is something that you and your intended should talk about before you begin planning.
To get you started, you should do plenty of research once you have found out the traditions your family holds near and dear to their heart. Once you have some of that information, it can help you get started choosing the ideal components for making your day special.
Make a list of ideas that appeal to you such as rituals and ceremonies that are common in an African wedding ceremony. Choose at least three of these ideas to be the outline for your wedding and reception. If you don't feel comfortable building a wedding ceremony and reception yourself, you might think about hiring a wedding professional who can help you realize your inspirations and make them a reality.
You can create invitations that reflect the African flair of your wedding. You can also think about creating a newsletter detailing what your guests can expect when they attend and anything they can do to help with the participation. You may want to employ the services of a designer to create signature wedding garb for your special African wedding ceremony.
Many people are familiar with the concept of the "Circle of Love" from the blockbuster hit and long running Broadway play, "The Lion King." You can form a circle of love at your ceremony that will join you and your wedding party along with the guests into one entity, which will start your wedding day off with a sense of unity for everyone.
Use readings and prayers to honor those who have come before you such as your parents and your grandparents as well as any other elder who deserves recognition. This is traditional at most African wedding ceremonies and serves to show the respect that the young have for those older and wiser.
Be sure that you serve traditional African fare that will be sure to please all of your guests. You can also offer something a little less exotic for those who have a more timid palette. To really set the mood and get the party started you can hire drummers and dancers who will add cultural beats to get your guests moving on the dance floor.
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Wedding Ceremony Choices Abound
Nowadays, when a couple is ready to make a decision about which style of wedding ceremony they would like to have, they are faced with endless options. For many couples, they are moving away from formal religious ceremonies and are seeking out other ways to exchange their vows. However, the standard wedding ceremony program still remains very traditional.
In stepping away from tradition and opting for a non-religious ceremony, some couples are asking a friend or a family member to perform the ritual. However, an important part of the role for the person who officiates, is to provide guidance in preparing and crafting the wedding vows, as well as for the overall ceremony.
Should the bride and groom decide to simply take on the task of planning their wedding ceremony on their own, there are many considerations. In order to have a well-planned ceremony, there are certain elements that should not be overlooked, but which can be customized to reflect the couple's personality.
Some of these critical wedding ceremony components to consider are:
1) The processional for the entrance of the bride, the groom and other members of the party, if desired;
2) The music, poetry, literature or other marriage readings, including those from the Bible, as desired;
3) The witnesses who you wish to sign your marriage certificate;
4) The wedding vows, whether standard or custom written by the couple;
5) The exchanging of the rings;
6) The lighting of a unity candle of other type of unity ceremony;
7) Any type of blessing or benediction on the marriage;
8) Any community or familiar commitment to support and uphold the union;
9) The newlyweds' first kiss and the recessional during the exit of the bride and groom.
Another important aspect of planning the marriage ceremony is in choosing the special event location. This is not only proper for the solemnity of the occasion but it will also inspire the couple and reflect their personality. For those couples who wish to have their nuptial ceremony at the place where they, or their family worship, then their perfect location is already a given.
For others seeking a less traditional venue for the exchange of their vows, the choice can sometimes be quite a challenge as there are so many marriage locations and receptions sites to choose from. More and more often, many of the best reception sites also feature superb settings for hosting the marriage ceremony as well. This offers a very convenient option which simplifies the day for the bride and groom and guests alike.
While finalizing the plans for your wedding ceremony, be sure that you feel comfortable with the choices made since they will become lasting memories. Often, well-meaning friends or family members try to influence the couple, but the final decision should always align with the ultimate desires of the couple as it is a day of celebration in their honor.
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Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Wedding Ceremony Decoration
Wedding ceremonies are the most intimate, special part of the wedding. As it goes, wedding decorations are reflective of the couple and their personality. The wedding ceremony is where the attention will first go, and gives a preview of how the reception will look like.
Wedding ceremony decorations should be kept simple and within the theme of the entire wedding, so that the focus will all go to the event itself, and to the bride and groom. At most, churches or ceremony decorations should be muted and should enhance the location, and not be too loud or distracting.
Here are some tips for wedding ceremony decoration that you can use, for both indoor and outdoor wedding ceremonies.
1. There are many ways a ceremony can be made to look extra special for this special day, and one way is adding flowers. Place bouquets of flowers around the pillars of church, carefully tied with delicate and sheer ribbon. Flowers are also placed along the aisle in the church, by the entrance, and hung in various strategically chosen areas of the ceiling. By the altar, pillars can also be wrapped with lace and tulle, and touches of flowers but not too extravagant.
White is an excellent choice for wedding ceremony decoration flowers; it adds to the innocence of the whole event. You can add subtle color and make white the dominating theme with greens to enhance it, or using the two or three colors of your wedding theme. The colors used for venue decoration should never be too far from the colors of the bouquets used, so that there is harmony.
If you are getting married in Christmas, use Christmas wreaths to decorate the ceremony as well. Seasonal themes are a great way to decorate your wedding. Place wreaths on doors and a few on walls, so as not to overdo it.
2. Use soft lighting to give a romantic atmosphere. You can use Christmas lights to light the aisle, and use colorful metallic ribbons to cover the wire. Go ahead and use lights for a contrast, or use them in complementing colors with the rest of your theme.
Large candles are a great way to add lighting to the wedding ceremony. If the church is large, big candles are a good idea, to minimize small candles falling and accidents.
Torches should be kept at a minimum during wedding receptions, placing them in strategic places such as entrances and exits. Altar torches are a great idea to light up the ceremony.
Lights can also be hung on strings or thin ribbons to make outdoor venues more romantic. Tie Christmas lights to light up dancing areas, dining areas, and along the buffet table.
3. Colorful ribbons and lace in various colors can enhance the mood in the church. Use gold, ivory, or silver to drape around flowers, walls, and pillars. More contrasting colors such as deep purple, magenta, red, forest green and dark blue can be added in small amounts. This can be done using two strips of ribbon at the same time, with the gold one being the dominant, thick ribbon, while a thinner colored one is attached with it. Place them around chairs, behind pews, and to tie flowers onto the aisle.
4. Large ribbons in doorways make for a grand entrance and exit. From the outside and inside, ribbons can frame doorways or entrances.
5. Balloons are also a great idea to decorate wedding ceremonies. Balloon bouquets in soft colors such as white, pink, blue, yellow and mint green add touches of color to the venue. Balloons can also be tied to the backs of chairs or sides of pews. In indoor venues, you can also try letting some balloons float in the air.
Balloons can also be tied to a wire to form an arch over the wedding cake. Simply use wire to form a dome over the cake area, and tie small balloons around them. Corners of rooms and indoor venues can also use a bunch of balloons.
For outdoor weddings, balloons can be a minimal part of the entire design by tying balloons to pillars, gazebos, or tent poles.
When designing your wedding ceremony decorations, remember to keep it simple and use things that are reflective of you. This is your special day after all, and planning decorations does not have to be difficult if you keep these pointers in mind.
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Groomsmen Reception Gifts - Wedding Ceremony Ideas
If you are planning an original wedding such as a nautical wedding ceremony or something equally different and original then it is a must that for you to find a definitely unique favor that will be in harmony with your theme. The favor that you select must also be able to convey to your guests your appreciation and joy for attending your ceremony.
Also any wedding favor that can put a smile on your wedding guests is a perfect wedding favor. So for those brides and grooms who are planning for a nautical or a wedding by the sea than 'Come Sail Away' Handcrafted Wooden Bottle Opener is just right for you. Even if you are fond of the sea or you are living near the coast line and you wish your guests to feel the taste of the sea in your ceremony, then 'Come Sail Away' Handcrafted Wooden Bottle Opener is the perfect way to do it.
This also reminds me of some great groomsmen gifts and bridal favors to add to this. I think the personalized pub signs would go well with this type of theme. Also you could add a pocket watch to check the time while you are at sea and enjoying the wedding reception. If you need a little more you could add a wonderful silver flask that could be engraved to add style and class to the whole look. If you personalize the gifts they seem to mean so much more to the person who receives it.
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Sunday, November 4, 2007
Unity Ceremony - Ideas and Tips
The Unity Candle Ceremony is a very symbolic and usually traditional part of the ceremony. When the lighting of the candles takes place it symbolizes the union of husband, wife and their families. This is a very essential part of most wedding ceremonies.
The unity candle set includes two taper candles and a large candle that are to be lighted. The candles are placed in a candelabra to make a nice display. The larger of the three candles which is called the unity candle is placed normally where the unity ceremony will take place. Then the bride and groom will take one of the taper candles each and then they will light the large unity candle together which symbolizes the unity of their new lives together.
Below I have outlined some tips and ideas that will help you customize your unity ceremony to your liking.
A great idea is to have your parents take part in the ceremony with you. Each one of the couples parents can light the unity candles with the couple to symbolize the new union of families.
The groom can also light one of the tapers before the ceremony, and after the bride is escorted in, her and her father can light the other taper to symbolize her fathers approval of the union.
If you have children it is a nice idea to have them help light the unity candle.
When lighting the unity candle you should let your photographer and videographer know where and when that way you can get the best pictures possible of the unity ceremony.
Before you begin your unity ceremony it is a very good and common sense idea to make sure your candles will light, if not then you'll have your first of many blunders.
A great idea is to have your best man and bridesmaid take part in the ceremony to symbolize the joining of new friendships and family.
Some new to be couples will have already had the taper candles lighted before the start of the unity ceremony to reflect the bride and groom as individuals.
Have one of your favorite love songs played while lighting the unity candles.
Exchange poems while your partner is lighting the unity candle.
Check with the pastor and make sure it is ok to have a unity ceremony.
But most importantly remember that it is your wedding day and just have a great time and be creative and fun while doing it.
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How To Plan Your Wedding Ceremony Music
Not all songs are created equal. The type of wedding ceremony music that you choose will be quite different from the wedding reception music. There is also the consideration on the type of wedding you will be having - whether it is a traditional religious ceremony or a less formal occasion, such as a garden wedding or beach wedding. In this article, we are going to be looking at music choices that would fit into a more formal and religious atmosphere.
What Type Of Music Is Needed For Each Segment
In a traditional ceremony arrangement, low-key instrumental music is usually played and begins about a half hour before the ceremony begins. This is called the Prelude. Most times, if you don't have any real choices in songs, the organist will play the typical wedding selections that other bride's and groom's have used. If you wish to pick your own Prelude songs, a few of the more popular choices are:
* Canon in D by Pachelbel
* Air From Water Music by Handel
* Ave Maria by Bach
* Greensleeves by David Chamberlain
* Waltz (from Sleeping Beauty) by Tchaikovsky
* We've Only Just Begun by The Carpenters
* Tonight I Celebrate My Love (For You) by Peabo Bryson & Roberta Flack
* Breathless by Kenny G
You will then need to choose what music you would prefer for your Processional (as you walk down the aisle). Some brides will elect to have traditional instrumental music such as Canon in D, Ave Maria, and of course the tune that everyone knows: The Wedding March (Here Comes The Bride). However, more and more of today's brides are chosing tunes from popular song artists. Here is a short list of Processional songs that tend to be favorites:
* Power Of Love by Celine Dion
* What A Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong and Kenny G
* Endless Love by Lionel Ritchie and Diana Ross
* Grow Old With Me by Mary Chapin Carpenter
* Look At You Girl by Chris Ledoux
* From This Moment On by Shania Twain
* Because you Loved me by Celine Dion
* Only Time by Enya
* This I Swear by Nick Lachey
* Nadia's Theme by Barry De Vorzon and Perry Botkin, Jr.
During the ceremony itself, there will be breaks when you will need to provide solos, hymns or instrumental music, such as when you are signing the register. Some common pieces sung by soloists are:
* Wedding (There Is Love) by Stookey
* Ave Maria by Schubert
* Evergreen by Barbra Streisand
* One Hand, One Heart (West Side Story) by Bernstein and Sondheim
* Sunrise, Sunset (Fiddler on the Roof) by Harnick and Bock
* Ode to Joy by Bethoven
Finally the ceremony ends and the bride and groom turn to leave to the sounds of the Recessional. Here you will want a vibrant, joyous song or instrumental to play. You may choose from classical music or the more popular pop songs of today. A few examples are:
* Wedding March from a Midsummer Night's Dream by Mendelssohn
* Overture from The Marriage of Figaro by Mozart
* Bridal March by Hollins
* Ode to Joy by Beethoven
* Nothings Going To Stop Us Now by Jefferson Starship
* Beautiful Day by U2
* Walking On Sunshine by Katrina and the Waves
* Forever and Ever, Amen by Randy Travis
Tips For Planning Your Music Selections
Before you select any music, soloists or instrumentalists, you will need to get the answers to certain questions as follows:
1) Speak with your clergy member to find out if the religious venue you are considering provides an organist and/or choir. What other types of musicians are allowed and can he/she recommend anyone? Are other types of musicians allowed such as a harpist, flutist, guitarist, etc.? Can he/she recommend any soloists?
2) You will also need to determine if there are any restrictions on the types of songs and music played during the ceremony. In a very strict, religious church, you may be prohibited from playing any non-religious songs.
3) If the church or synagogue provides an organist or other instrumentalist, what is the fee that is charged for using them? What if you wish to use a friend or a particular organist rather than the one provided, are you allowed to substitute?
4) Determine what type of mood you want for your ceremony. Some couples want a more serious, solemn service, while other couples want a fun-filled, vibrant atmosphere. This will help you in your selection of wedding music, as well as deteriming the best soloist and musicians to hire.
5) If you have any friends or family members that are gifted musicians, you may want to consider asking them to provide the songs and music. It will provide an added personal touch to your ceremony. Be sure to thank them by presenting them with a small gift. In some cases, you may need to hire them just as you would any other professional musician, but it is usually much less expensive to do so.
6) Once you determine what music and songs you will be using, make sure all soloists and musicians have a copy of the music list along with when they are to be sung/played. If any of the songs or music are new to your performers, make sure you provide sheet music and give it to them early so they can prepare.
7) Purchase tapes and CD's of wedding music to listen to. This will help make your choices much easier.
As you can see, there are quite a few details to resolve when planning out your wedding ceremony music. The above song suggestions are the ones more traditionally chosen. However, there are alway new popular songs by song artists that can also be wonderful choices for a wedding ceremony. Keep your ears open for them. Hopefully, the above guidelines should give you a good start toward picking the perfect music that will personalize your own wedding.
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Saturday, November 3, 2007
Wedding Ceremony
The chapel were the ceremony was held was absolutely stunning. It needed little decorating as the wooden floors, the pews and the wooden rafters looked amazing as they were. Where you stand on the altar there is a huge window which looks out over the lake. The bonus of this church is that it was air conditioned and having the wedding on a hot summers day this was a great extra to keep everyone cool.
The wedding venue just put the usually pew flowers on the ends and the red carpet down the isle and it was perfect. The girls and I arrived at the chapel at about 2:25pm for a 2:30pm start. We were taken from the main reception down to the chapel by the horse and carriage.
The horse and carriage was something out of a Cinderella story. It looked like a royal carriage fit for a princess. I made sure the doors were closed to the chapel so no-one could see me arrive. I got a few disgruntle aunts about that but I was really worried that I would either fall out of the carriage or I would be crying when I arrived.
For the vows, we did a bit of research on the internet as I wasn't happy with what the minister normally does for the wedding. I found some vows that really touched me when I first read them and it just seemed like it was made for our wedding. The ceremony went for about 20 mins and while we were signing the register we had a singer who sang "From This Moment" By Shania Twain.
Once the ceremony was over, we all stood on the step and greeted our guests before the big group shot. At the wedding venue they have a tradition of getting everyone on the steps of the chapel and throwing rose petals in the air for a group photo.
After the ceremony we got the family and bridal party photos done. While this was happening we provided our guests with nibblys and drinks in the shade of the chapel near the lake. I had pink and black serviettes + I found this cocktail sticks with silver hearts on the end to have as well.
My husband and I took the horse and carriage back up to the reception and had some photos around the pool and on the staircase before meeting up with the bridal party before the reception entrance. By the time the photo's after the ceremony were over I was exhausted from smiling and was a bit over getting photos done as they take so many. The backdrop in all our photos are simply unforgettable.
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Wedding Ceremony Planning - How to Stay Cool While Planning Your Wedding
Planning a wedding ceremony is a huge and nerve wracking task even for the most calm and collected bride-to-be. In order to maintain sanity while you try to plan every detail of what may just be the most memorable day of your life, you need to focus not just on the details of your wedding, but also on the state of your well-being.
You don't want to get to your perfectly planned wedding day and find out that you are a stressed out mess. So while you are planning, keep in mind the following suggestions that just might help keep a bride calm and cool until the big day.
Tip #1 - Hit the Gym
Keeping up a regular exercise program prior to the ceremony will not only insure that you look stunning in your wedding dress, but will also give you amazing stress relief. A great cardio, pilates or yoga workout is a terrific way to clear your mind and get those creative juices flowing as you work out every detail of the wedding ceremony; from flower arrangements to seating arrangements.
Tip #2 - Relax With Your Favorite Music
A great way to relieve the stress of planning your big event is to listen to music. A terrific way to settle down when you are feeling pressure building up is to play some great music. You might even give yourself the energy to finish up the planning and paperwork regarding invitations if you listen to music that reminds you of those first few dates with your husband-to-be.
Tip #3 - Spoil Yourself at the Spa
Stress does nasty things to the skin. Pamper yourself at the spa with a relaxing facial, and get those hands and feet primped for the big day. A facial will not only make your skin look terrific, it is also an awesome way to relax.
Tip #4 - Make Time for Your Friends
When it feels like preparations are about to make you snap it is probably the perfect time to put a pause on the planning and spend a little time with your friends. Go for coffee, or a glass of wine, or even a chocolate sundae. Spending time catching up and laughing with good friends is an excellent way to relieve stress.
Tip #5 - Consider Canning the Wedding Ceremony and... Eloping!
If all of the planning still has you stressed out and miserable, perhaps a traditional wedding ceremony is not your style. Consider the possibility of canning all of the pomp and circumstance and settling for a much simpler wedding. All that is really required is a bride and groom, a couple of witnesses, and an officiator.
Although eloping takes away the formality, it also eliminates the stress. But regardless of how lavish you decide to make it, remember to spend time mentally preparing yourself for this commitment, and allowing yourself to fully enjoy your wedding day.
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Friday, November 2, 2007
Plan A Themed Wedding Ceremony and Reception
Many times, a bride and groom-to-be share interests important enough to them that they would like something other than a traditional wedding ceremony and reception. Perhaps they share a common interest in Civil War reenactment, Medieval or Renaissance recreation, or Science Fiction and fantasy. To these couples, it may be more meaningful to hold the wedding ceremony somewhere other than in the church with a traditional pastor. What follow are a few tips to help you plan your themed wedding reception and ceremony.
First of all, you need to check with your local community’s laws as to who may or may not perform a legal wedding ceremony. If there are any legalities involved, this could be taken care of simply by having a quick civil marriage ceremony before a duly authorized official or justice of the peace just prior to the actual themed ceremony. Or, if you can find a member of the clergy who was willing to perform the wedding ceremony in other than traditional garb, this is also a possibility. Whatever the case, be sure this point is decided well in advance of the nuptials. Of course, if the bride and groom are not looking to formalize their union for various reasons, they can still skip this step.
If you do have a special interest like those listed above, take into account whether you have sufficient friends or contacts who can help you in the preparations of nontraditional clothing like costumes for the members of your family who will be attending with you. That should be done well enough in advance of the wedding ceremony so that any of those not already familiar with this type of wear can be appropriately fitted and given time to get used to be unfamiliar dress. The day of the wedding ceremony and reception is NOT the first time to have them try and walk in a mode of dress they've never dealt with before. Also, be kind to your wedding party and guests. Take into account the time of year you plan your wedding. Don't force them to wear multilayered long dresses for the women and a long suit coat and trousers for the men in 90° or better heat if you're getting married outdoors in the summer.
Try to scout out a reception hall or other location that might be appropriate to the era you're trying to represent in your ceremony. In the case of a futuristic or non-historical wedding, this may not be a question so much as where to hold an appropriate wedding reception afterwards which allow for the kind of decoration you might want to do. Try and secure the reception hall, location and/or church as soon as you can to ensure that you have it for your special day.
The last consideration to a themed wedding is what kind of food you intend to serve at the reception afterwards. Depending on your budget and needs, will you be having friends and family prepare historical recipes for a medieval banquet or Civil War type ball? Or, can you find a caterer who would be willing to work with you in the preparation of this type of recipe should you wish to offer a sit-down dinner. Or, would it be more appropriate to offer a sideboard containing finger foods that your wedding guests can take advantage of throughout the following festivities?
Finally, is the site you have chosen "wet" (allowing you to bring in alcoholic beverages) or "dry". Be sure to follow these regulations closely or you could find that you are in serious trouble with the site should any unauthorized alcohol be found.
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Wedding Ceremony Unity Candles
Wedding unity candles are a traditional part of any wedding ceremony and celebration. Unity candles comes in many styles to suit any occasion. Below are just a few of the most popular Unity Candles.
The Modern Square Pillar Candles and Taper Candles, in whites and dulls go with any color tone and any party theme. These truly create a sensual and lovable ambience for the occasion.The Double Ring Unity and Taper Holders in sparkling brass and silver metals, give an elegant base and a rich artistic support for various designer candles to hold on until the last burn of the wick.
The melting wax that falls on the holders further enhances the effect and adds a tint of antiquity to the wedding party. Accessories including the interlocking rings at the base and the taper holders render a must-have appeal for ring bearers and bridesmaids.
The Sweethearts Forever Ceremony Candles bear artistically created hearts inspired by the hand colored photographs of ace photographers. The perfect background illustrations and lace details with ribbon and mauve resin flowers featuring the base, provide a resplendent ambience, besides a unique appearance on the wedding tabletops. A western panorama is created in your wedding ceremony with specially themed Western Fringe Ceremony Candles.
These unity pillar candles are nicely draped in special silk cord, silk rope miniature white Stetson and two horseshoes that symbolize good luck and fortune in future endeavors. The silver-plated unity candle holder with a heart motif is yet another unique way of expressing the relationship of love, passion, and idyllic communion amidst an atmosphere that is full of fun and frolic.
Completely styled for those rare occasions of your wedding ceremony including bridal shower and ring bearer occasion, are the set of frosted votive candles rightly imbued with the spirit of Love, Joy, Hope, Faith, and Trust. The Clear Glass Candle Holder is an ideal match for frosted votive candles that not only provide a stringent support base to this tender and subtly designed candle, but also inspire a romantic and passionate mood for the special day.
These are most sought after gift ideas for guiding the way of guests through the aisle, besides garden settings in a traditional wedding ceremony.The tarnish resistant Silver Plated Interlocking Heart Taper Candle holder has a tough and antique looks bearing two subtly designed heart shapes interlocked to symbolize unity, love and affection.
The exclusive candle gift ideas also include winter wonder ceremony candles, to become one unity candle, 50th anniversary unity candle, pearl unity candle, double heart ivory unity candle, enchanting moments white unity candle set and many more to give the your wedding ceremony that extra flavor and sparkle.For the traditional Church ceremony these wonderful and elegant
Unity Candles are just the perfect choice. When the meaning of two that become one "Unity Candles" these candles make great keepsake items of your special day.
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Thursday, November 1, 2007
Arranging Perfect Wedding Ceremony Music - Top Tips And Advice
Wedding Ceremony Music
Your wedding day should be one of the most treasured memories of your life. Selecting the right wedding music for your ceremony will set the scene not only for your wedding but for the rest of your big day.
It goes without saying that music is central to any ceremony. If you want a religious wedding ceremony, choosing the wedding music is not really that difficult task since the church usually has standards concerning this. Plus the selection of hymns and religious music is a relatively easy task.
At an early stage, you've got to decide, at which points in the ceremony music is most appropriate. If you're of a particular religious persuasion, you'll probably have a ceremonial and service structure to assist your planning. Remember that most clergy will allow you a degree of flexibility in deciding the themes and actual selections of music for your wedding.
If you're organizing a civil or non-religious ceremony, it's probably best that you opt for some live music coupled with some recorded tracks. A string quartet is ideal for civil ceremonies as it can provide classical or contemporary background music during the pertinent parts of your wedding. You may want to include a favourite song or track into the proceedings and your venue organizer should normally be able to provide amplification and equipment to facilitate this.
It's worth considering the ages and religious persuasions of your guests. Do not assume that your guests are going to know all your favourite hymns. A sizeable proportion of them will hardly know how to sing, let along how to sing a hymn they haven't heard before. It's therefore worth having an organist and/ or choir present at your ceremony to guide your guests through the hymns and ensuring that they don't get lost in the words.
Remember, that apart from the obvious choice of an organist, which is normally provided via the church, you can also opt to hire live bands, musicians, or duos or trios to sing during the ceremony. We recommend the use of a string quartet during the ceremony as it can dramatically add color and character to the proceedings and moreover can alternate with a church organist to provide a really special event.
Want some ideas for ceremony instrumentals? What about the "Trumpet Voluntary" or "Trumpet Tune and Air", by Henry Purcell, or even the traditional "Here comes the Bride" by Wagner. We recommend that it's best to use the organist for the bride's entrance and leaving marches. That means that string quartets and other musicians can be used to enhance and liven up the intermediate stages of the ceremony.
Generally, Processional and Entrance songs should have a slow, graceful air about them. The song you choose for your ceremonial entrance should be bright and upbeat, inviting everyone to participate and celebrate your union. The traditional 'Here Comes the Bride', is the favored choice in most wedding ceremonies for a reason, it's upbeat and lively. The end of the ceremony Recessional is also a time for joy and celebration and very much sets the tone for the rest of the day. The top traditional choice for the recessional is 'Mendelssohn's Wedding March'.
When you're researching your wedding ceremony options, be sure to check out any venue guidelines with respect to ceremony music that could possibly impact on your music choices. If the ceremony is being held outdoors, check for electrical power outlets - as every band without exception will need to power their performance. If you're having a church wedding, you would have to stick to the church's guidelines, and remember that churches normally provide a reputable organist and choir for you.
Planning your ceremony music is an important aspect of your arrangements. Don't treat it as an afterthought. Wedding ceremony music gives the wedding a theme and sets the tone for the rest of your big day. It goes without saying that there would be no wedding without the ceremony and in our view; there would be no ceremony worth remembering without the music.
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Wedding Ceremony Choices Abound
Nowadays, when a couple is ready to make a decision about which style of wedding ceremony they would like to have, they are faced with endless options. For many couples, they are moving away from formal religious ceremonies and are seeking out other ways to exchange their vows. However, the standard wedding ceremony program still remains very traditional.
In stepping away from tradition and opting for a non-religious ceremony, some couples are asking a friend or a family member to perform the ritual. However, an important part of the role for the person who officiates, is to provide guidance in preparing and crafting the wedding vows, as well as for the overall ceremony.
Should the bride and groom decide to simply take on the task of planning their wedding ceremony on their own, there are many considerations. In order to have a well-planned ceremony, there are certain elements that should not be overlooked, but which can be customized to reflect the couple's personality.
Some of these critical wedding ceremony components to consider are:
1) The processional for the entrance of the bride, the groom and other members of the party, if desired;
2) The music, poetry, literature or other marriage readings, including those from the Bible, as desired;
3) The witnesses who you wish to sign your marriage certificate;
4) The wedding vows, whether standard or custom written by the couple;
5) The exchanging of the rings;
6) The lighting of a unity candle of other type of unity ceremony;
7) Any type of blessing or benediction on the marriage;
8) Any community or familiar commitment to support and uphold the union;
9) The newlyweds' first kiss and the recessional during the exit of the bride and groom.
Another important aspect of planning the marriage ceremony is in choosing the special event location. This is not only proper for the solemnity of the occasion but it will also inspire the couple and reflect their personality. For those couples who wish to have their nuptial ceremony at the place where they, or their family worship, then their perfect location is already a given.
For others seeking a less traditional venue for the exchange of their vows, the choice can sometimes be quite a challenge as there are so many marriage locations and receptions sites to choose from. More and more often, many of the best reception sites also feature superb settings for hosting the marriage ceremony as well. This offers a very convenient option which simplifies the day for the bride and groom and guests alike.
While finalizing the plans for your wedding ceremony, be sure that you feel comfortable with the choices made since they will become lasting memories. Often, well-meaning friends or family members try to influence the couple, but the final decision should always align with the ultimate desires of the couple as it is a day of celebration in their honor.
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Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Tea Ceremony Traditions Are A Wonderful Tradition
Tea ceremonies are ritual ways of preparing and drinking tea, and the custom itself is one which has been strongly influenced by Zen Buddhism. Today, tea ceremonies are quite popular, and there are actually several different tea ceremony traditions that take place around the world. Still, one of the most well-known and respected is the traditional Japanese tea ceremony.
Japanese Tea Ceremony
The ceremony itself takes place in a room that is designed and designated for tea, and it is better known as the chashitsu. This room is typically located within the tea house, away from the residence, in the garden area. In terms of guests, the preferred number is four, although this may vary depending on the particular tea ceremony.
One of the guests is chosen to be the main guest, and they are then led, with the main guest in front, to a water sprinkled garden that is devoid of any flowers. Here the guests rid themselves of the dust of the world, and then seat themselves on the waiting bench, or koshikake machiai, awaiting the approach of the host who has the official title of being the house master.
Once inside the tea house, each guest is served a meal known as chakaiseki, which is served on a tray with fresh cedar chopsticks. There are three different courses, and once these have been consumed and the guests are finished, the host removes the scroll and replaces it with flowers. This Japanese Tea ceremony is definitely one of complexity and detail, and one that has been revered since ancient times.
Chinese Tea Ceremony
This is another well known and incredibly respected ceremony, as the art of drinking and serving tea plays a major cultural role in China. The Chinese Tea ceremony is one which emphasizes the tea rather than the ceremony itself, and each step in the ceremony is meant to be a sensory exploration and appreciation.
The teas that are typically used in this ceremony are particularly refined, such as oolong and red teas, and the style of tea drinking uses small cups to match the small, unglazed clay teapots that are used. These tiny cups are particularly popular in Fujian and Chiujao, in southern coastal China above Canton.
All tea ceremonies are significant and respected, and each represents a different culture, a different part of the world. Each is just as important as the next, even though the traditions carried out within are very different from each other.
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How Wedding Poetry Brighten Up The Ceremony
It's always lovely to have the traditional best man and matron of honor speeches, as well as listening to the father's of the bride and groom tell a few funny tales. To really set the romantic mood and remind your guests what love is all about, why not select some beautiful wedding poetry to brighten up the ceremony and reception? Poetry is a lovely way to express what the union of marriage means to you as well as talk about love, commitment and happiness.
Poets such as Robert Graves, Stuart Macfarlane, William Cartwright and Dallas Fisher know how to capture the essence of love with words. It can be difficult for someone who is not a literary expert to come up with something romantic and poetic themselves, but what you need to say is likely to have already been written for you by another poet. Don’t let your wedding go without that special romantic touch because you can't think of anything to say; use wedding poetry instead so your partner knows how you really feel.
Your wedding day is a time to tell the world how you feel and why you are making a life long commitment to someone you love. There are so many wedding poems to suit countless situations and couples you are bound to find one that is right for you. Traditionally, poetry was always included in wedding ceremonies but over time the tradition has been somewhat lost and along with it some of the romance of ceremonies has been lost too. It isn’t too late, and you can make yours have that extra loving touch. You can buy a book of love poems or look on the internet where there are literally thousands of databases for love and wedding poetry.
If your wedding is in a church, don't be afraid to ask if you can customize the ceremony. While it is a lovely thing to be married by the same catholic priest who wed your parents and your cousins, you don’t have to have the exact same scripting. Find your favored poems first then approach the priest to let him know where you would like them added and who you would like to read them. In most cases, there will be no problem with putting pretty wedding poetry into the proceedings.
It is the flow and pace of poetry along with the tempting way the outcomes aren’t revealed until the end that can make them so pleasurable to listen to. Try not to pick wedding poems that are too complex or difficult for the average person to understand because you want everyone to enjoy them, and make sure the reader is well practiced and slow paced. It's a nice balance to have a poem at the beginning, one or two in the middle and one at the end of the ceremony, as a guide.
Whether poetry is your favorite thing or not isn’t the point, it's the mood created by reading wedding poetry that makes the concept so attractive. What better opportunity could there be in life to appreciate the flowing beauty of poetic words than on a wedding day? If you or someone you know is planning a wedding, spend some time getting lost in the words of some love poems and you will be sure to agree that wedding poems are a must for every ceremony.
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Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Wedding Ceremony Checklist - 31 Questions to Ask Ceremony Locations
A wedding ceremony is the most important aspect of your wedding day. You may already know the location where you will be married, or you may be considering several locations for the ceremony. Whatever the situation, you will need to ask the wedding location official some important questions before you book your wedding ceremony. Here is a list of questions you should ask. Not all questions may apply to you, or you may want to add additional questions to suit your needs.
Name and Location of Ceremony Site:
Name and Phone Number of Contact Person:
- What dates and times are available?
- How many guests can the location accommodate?
- (If applicable) What is the denomination of the facility? Are their any restrictions?
- Is an officiant available? And at what cost?
- Are outside officiants allowed?
- What type of ceremony will it be?
- How long will the ceremony be?
- Will there be special readings or passages?
- Can we select the readings or passages?
- Can we select the readers for the ceremony?
- Can we write our own vows?
- Are their any restrictions on our own vows or special wording needed?
- Do vows need to be approved?
- Are their any pre-wedding classes or counseling we will need to attend?
- Are their any musical instruments available for use?
- If yes, is there a fee to use them?
- Are ceremony musicians included in the site fee or is there an additional fee?
- Are their any music restrictions?
- Are their any photography restrictions?
- Are their any videography restrictions?
- Are candle lighting ceremonies allowed (such as unity candle ceremonies)?
- Are their any restrictions regarding rice, birdseed, confetti, bubbles or rose petal tossing?
- What floral decorations will be available? Are flowers allowed?
- When will the rehearsal be scheduled?
- How many parking spaces are available?
- Where is the parking located?
- Is their handicap accessibility?
- What rental items are necessary?
- What is the ceremony site fee?
- What is the payment policy?
- What is the cancellation policy?
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Wedding Ceremony Etiquette - Do's and Dont's of the Wedding Ceremony
Despite their abundance in society, wedding ceremonies are of paramount importance. Care should be taken so that every single detail is observed to the effect that the wedding ceremony is carried out smoothly, properly and without any hindrance. Despite the number of unconventional wedding ceremonies occurring nowadays, most wedding ceremonies are still carried out traditionally. Also, different nationalities have different traditions and conventions for wedding ceremonies. Despite so many differences, there always exist a number of similarities among wedding ceremonies in different societies. Although the wedding ceremony etiquette tends to differ, it also remains largely similar between different communities.
Wedding ceremony etiquette is a term that covers several classes conventions at once. It basically denotes the set of decorum to be observed during a wedding ceremony, and does not necessarily imply a set of rites or rituals to be carried out. A set of what to do and what not to, largely constitute what are collectively referred to as ceremony etiquette. It is always advisable that the hosts of any wedding ceremony follow these norms – from organizing it to seeing it carried out till the end.
A synoptic perspective of the wedding ceremony is a set of dos and don’ts. As in most cases of the similar sort, the don’ts generally outnumber the dos. It is generally considered rude to ask directly not to bring children to the wedding ceremony. This can be taken care of by mentioning specifically the names of the adults who have been invited.
It is also considered against the etiquette to make direct references to wedding gifts in the body of the invitation letter. Moreover, gifts should not be opened during the ceremony itself. On the occasion of a cancellation or postponement, every guest has to be individually notified and the gifts (saving the personalized ones) have to be sent back.
It is not required for a bride marrying for the second time to have a train attached to her wedding dress, to carry flowers, and to don a veil. Gloves, on the other hand, should be worn except while putting on the wedding ring or while eating at the Wedding Breakfast.
Guests have to observe a plethora of wedding ceremony etiquette. It is not mandatory for guests belonging to a different faith to participate in the ceremony, but it is not prohibited, either. In case of lateness, a guest should not make a noisy entrance that might disturb the ceremony.
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Monday, October 29, 2007
Tips For Your Unity Ceremony
The Unity Candle Ceremony symbolic part of the wedding ceremony. The lighting of the candles symbolizes the union of husband, wife and their families.
The unity candle set is two taper candles and a large candle. The candles are usually placed in a candelabra. The larger of the three which is called the unity candle is placed where the ceremony will be taken place. Then the couple will take one of the taper candles each and they will light the large unity candle together which will symbolize the unity of their new lives together.
Here are some tips and ideas to help you customize your unity ceremony.
Before you begin your ceremony it is a good idea to make sure your candles light.
Have your best man and bridesmaid take part in the ceremony to symbolize the joining of new friendships and family.
Some couples will already have the taper candles burning before the start of the ceremony to reflect the bride and groom as individuals.
Have your parents take part in the ceremony with you. Have each one of your parents light the unity candles with you to symbolize the new union of families.
The groom can also light one of the tapers before the ceremony, and after the bride is escorted in, her and her father can light the other taper to symbolize her fathers approval of the union.
If you have children it is a nice idea to have them help light the unity candle.
When lighting the unity candle you should let your photographer and videographer know where and when that way you can get the best pictures possible of the unity ceremony.
Have one of your favorite love songs played while lighting the unity candles.
Exchange poems while your partner is lighting the unity candle.
Check with the pastor and make sure it is ok to have a unity ceremony.
Most of all remember it is your wedding and you can customize your unity ceremony any way that you like.
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Wedding Ceremony - How to Save Money on Your Outdoor Ceremony
You can save a great deal of money by hosting an outdoor wedding ceremony in a beautiful park, at the beach, on a hilltop, or even in your backyard. The only downside to hosting an outdoor ceremony is the potential for poor weather conditions.
Following are tips for saving money on your outdoor wedding ceremony:
- Have the service in your backyard.
- Choose an open public forum that does not generally have a great deal of people trying to access it (get the necessary permits beforehand).
- Opt for an ordained minister rather than a priest, which is less expensive. Just be sure to check that whoever you choose can legally perform wedding ceremonies in your area.
- Forego the chairs and have the guests stand as long as you host a short ceremony. A nice white or themed linen on the ground for guests to stand on is an elegant touch.
- Opt for a portable arch because it is easy to transport and very elegant.
- Think of a fun wedding theme. Outdoor ceremonies open the door to many themes that can greatly reduce the cost of your wedding and reception. Hawaiian themes and beach themes can help you save money on formal wear, for example, because people having an outdoor wedding are often dressed casually.
- Save on travel. Outdoor ceremonies can immediately switch from ceremony to reception which saves money on travel fees, such as limos.
If you decide to plan an outdoor wedding ceremony, be sure to have a contingency plan in the event of poor weather conditions, such as the ability to set up a weather tent or to move the event indoors.
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Saturday, October 27, 2007
Wedding Ceremony Program Wording
Wedding ceremony is a special event in each individual's life and is the time of joy and merry making. The occasion will be a grand success only in the presence of the near and dear and kith and kin. The guests who are invited also will find a time to enjoy and have a diversion from the regular way of life. In such an occasion the wedding ceremony program plays an important role to make them feel comfortable and keep them informed regarding the schedule of events. Wedding ceremony program wording selection should be done with care so that it conveys the idea clearly.
The wedding ceremony program wording is of great significance since it will be beneficial to many. It will be mainly useful for the guests who belong to some other culture or religion to understand the procedures of the wedding that takes place. Since the complete list of program is available to the guests they will know about the sequence of happenings that is to take place. It will also keep the guests prepared to wait till the events get over since they already know the agenda. The wedding ceremony program with proper wordings is really a souvenir that can be saved.
Wedding program ceremony wording used should clearly explain to the guests about all the details of the marriage. It should cover a brief introduction, which consists of the full names of the bride and groom, the when and where details of the wedding and also closure or special notes. It will also throw light on the sequence of the wedding ceremony. It will give details on prelude, solo, lighting of the candles, seating, procession, invocation, wedding message, exchange of vows, exchange of rings, announcement of marriage, presentation of the bride and groom, recession etc. It is not a must that all these details should be included but it may be modified accordingly.
The next important aspect that is explained through a wedding program ceremony wording is details regarding the wedding party. The preferable order is giving details on bride's parents, groom's parents, bride's grand parents, groom's grand parents, bridesmaids, flower girl, groomsmen, ring bearer, pianist, soloist etc.
Last but not least in the wedding program ceremony, wording should also mention the words of thanks to the guests, hosts of the wedding, dedication to the deceased family members and concluding poem. Some may also incorporate the instructions regarding reception.
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Catholic Wedding Ceremony
Catholics are the greatest denomination in number in the world. Their wedding ceremony has several procedures. The wedding takes place in a 'Catholic Parish' and held with the context of mass or wedding held outside the context of the mass. The most important things in the ceremony are the unity candles, cards, gifts and cakes. There are several procedures to follow for conducting a catholic wedding ceremony.
First, the place where the wedding should be conducted is fixed. Virgin Mary is honored. Then the parents of the children ask permission for conducting the wedding in their church. Approval and the processing come from the church higher authorities. They decide the conductor of the wedding. Preparations and classes are given to the bride and the groom. Then, they decide along with parents about reading wedding blessings, reading poems, papal blessings and write their own intercessions.
Choosing right music for the ceremony and selections of processional, prelude and recessional hymns and unity candle selection are done by the family members and is conveyed to the concerned people.
Basically, Catholic wedding ceremony resembles the usual Sunday mass except few features included. Ceremony within the context of mass consists of, the Liturgy of Word, which includes 3 readings from the scripture, a responsorial Psalm and a homily.
When the bride and groom get married Nuptial rite is given. The 3rd is the Liturgy of Eucharist.
The Catholic wedding ceremony or the mass begins with the processional hymn sung by the gathering. The ceremony may or may not include greeting which will be the next order of the mass. The gathering song is sung by everyone. The Liturgy of the Word is given. They first read scriptures from the book of Old Testament and this the 1st reading. Then, a responsorial Psalm is read or can be sung.
The 2nd reading is from the New Testament followed by the gospel acclamation (This is usually sung). The gospel reading and homily are followed after gospel acclamation.
The rite for the marriage is read, when everyone stands before the priest. The priest asks few questions about their faithfulness to each other, the acceptance of both, and about the upbringing of the children. Then the bride and the groom exchange vows. All the priests bless them. They exchange the wedding rings, which are blessed and given to them.
Liturgy of Eucharist is preceded. They sing hymns while preparing the altar. Gifts are presented and the Eucharistic prayer follows.
The Holy Communion and the nuptial blessing are given. The concluding rite is the final blessings given to everyone present in the Catholic wedding ceremony. Reception and introduction of the wedded couple takes place followed by feast.
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Thursday, October 25, 2007
Plan A Themed Wedding Ceremony and Reception
Many times, a bride and groom-to-be share interests important enough to them that they would like something other than a traditional wedding ceremony and reception. Perhaps they share a common interest in Civil War reenactment, Medieval or Renaissance recreation, or Science Fiction and fantasy. To these couples, it may be more meaningful to hold the wedding ceremony somewhere other than in the church with a traditional pastor. What follow are a few tips to help you plan your themed wedding reception and ceremony.
First of all, you need to check with your local community’s laws as to who may or may not perform a legal wedding ceremony. If there are any legalities involved, this could be taken care of simply by having a quick civil marriage ceremony before a duly authorized official or justice of the peace just prior to the actual themed ceremony. Or, if you can find a member of the clergy who was willing to perform the wedding ceremony in other than traditional garb, this is also a possibility. Whatever the case, be sure this point is decided well in advance of the nuptials. Of course, if the bride and groom are not looking to formalize their union for various reasons, they can still skip this step.
If you do have a special interest like those listed above, take into account whether you have sufficient friends or contacts who can help you in the preparations of nontraditional clothing like costumes for the members of your family who will be attending with you. That should be done well enough in advance of the wedding ceremony so that any of those not already familiar with this type of wear can be appropriately fitted and given time to get used to be unfamiliar dress. The day of the wedding ceremony and reception is NOT the first time to have them try and walk in a mode of dress they've never dealt with before. Also, be kind to your wedding party and guests. Take into account the time of year you plan your wedding. Don't force them to wear multilayered long dresses for the women and a long suit coat and trousers for the men in 90° or better heat if you're getting married outdoors in the summer.
Try to scout out a reception hall or other location that might be appropriate to the era you're trying to represent in your ceremony. In the case of a futuristic or non-historical wedding, this may not be a question so much as where to hold an appropriate wedding reception afterwards which allow for the kind of decoration you might want to do. Try and secure the reception hall, location and/or church as soon as you can to ensure that you have it for your special day.
The last consideration to a themed wedding is what kind of food you intend to serve at the reception afterwards. Depending on your budget and needs, will you be having friends and family prepare historical recipes for a medieval banquet or Civil War type ball? Or, can you find a caterer who would be willing to work with you in the preparation of this type of recipe should you wish to offer a sit-down dinner. Or, would it be more appropriate to offer a sideboard containing finger foods that your wedding guests can take advantage of throughout the following festivities?
Finally, is the site you have chosen "wet" (allowing you to bring in alcoholic beverages) or "dry". Be sure to follow these regulations closely or you could find that you are in serious trouble with the site should any unauthorized alcohol be found.
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The Hottest Trends In 21st Century Wedding Ceremony, Reception And Bridal Accessories
Ask any engaged couple what they want their wedding to reflect and you can expect an almost unanimous answer. Today brides and grooms want their wedding to be very personalized and reflect who they are and what makes them special. So, what makes a wedding personalized? or What is a personalized wedding?
What was once the norm, is no longer. Gone are the days when all you chose were your wedding attendants, invitations and attire. When you hired a hall you expected them to provide the caterer, the decorations, the musicians, the cake and the flowers. This is how weddings were planned when I got married. Today, brides and grooms want and get involved in every aspect and plan both ceremony and reception.
A 21st century wedding includes many elements that when put together create the feel and the atmosphere and make it special and personalized. Whether they plan a most formal evening event or a whimsical afternoon wedding party, brides and grooms planning a wedding today give it their personal touch. You did notice that I said brides and grooms. The newest and most welcomed development is that today wedding planning is not merely the responsibility of the bride and her family. Today, most grooms actively participate in planning the wedding with their brides and are making creative choices as well. The majority, loves it!
They pay special attention to assure that rather than helter skelter, everything in their wedding, from its color scheme to the wedding theme and everything in between, will coordinate well giving the wedding an aura of wholeness. The possibilities for personalization are endless.
Many 21st century brides and grooms choose their wedding date to correspond with someting personal to them. Whether it is connected with a first date, engagement, a birthday, a specific season, a holiday, a numerical sequence like 777 (July 7, 2007) or 888 (August 8, 2008) or even The day their parents or grandparent got married, the date chosen often has a special meanning. They choose their wedding color scheme and follow with coordinating as many aspects of the wedding with it. When you attend a current wedding, look around. Is there a color that runs throughout? most probably.
Nostalgia has its place too. Thus the old tradition of - Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue and... a Lucky Sixpence in her Shoe! is adhered to by most brides. It is emphasized because as part of who they are, it is becoming quite common for brides and grooms to get sentimental and either copy or use the actual wedding gown, cake top and other wedding related family heirlooms their grandparents or parents used at their weddings. Brides often carry family hankies and wear ancestral jewelry -Something old. Most such items are on loan so by using then returning it, the bride has fulfilled the - Something borrowed as well. Every bride purchases wedding accessories for her wedding - Something New. The something blue has traditionally been a blue garter however as part of the personalization, bride may choose a blue flower, a blue ribbon, a blue piece of jewelry even a blue hankie with a blue decoration. Though no longer in circulation, the Sixpence coin is available for purchase.
Attire
Wedding attire choices have become less traditional and more of personal preference. According to bridal salon owners, the current trend for brides calls for sleek and relatively simple gown or dress style. Favored are both plain yet elegant gowns or dresses and gowns or dresses adorned with crystal, pearls and lace. Silk flowers are entering the scene as gown adornments too.
The major contributors to pulling away from the fairy tale gown or dress styles, in favor of elegant simplicity as being the preferred choice for brides, can be contributed to:
- Today's working, price conscious brides who want to adhere to a budget, do not want to sacrifice style or beauty, but want a lot of value for their money.
- The growing popularity of destination weddings.
The trend for men has also become more casual, offering a choice of a dark suit, or dark pants with a white dinner jacket instead of a tuxedo.
Theme wedding allow even more freedom of choice. For example:
- Western attire is quite common in western theme weddings.
- Victorian attire in Victorian theme weddings,
- Renaissance garb in Renaissance theme wedding
- Casual wear and sandal in Beach weddings, and so on.
Jewelry
Today's brides preferred to keep their and their bridesmaids jewelry to a minimum, choosing Swarovski crystal, classic pearls clusters and pearl strands necklaces, with matching earrings. Replicas of celebrity tiaras, as well as tiaras studded with crystal and - or pearls are most popular. Many brides choose jewelry as their gifts to the ladies at the wedding party. Some give jewelry that coordinates with their attire. However, it seems that the trend starts shifting and in the mode of personalization and making each one special, brides prefer to give jewelry with the birth stone of the recipient. Bracelets are very popular.
Theme Weddings
Currently, more and more couples are planning theme weddings that express their interests and uniqueness.
Theme weddings, whether they are based on heritage, religion, tradition, historical events, hobbies and interests, destination or simply something both favor ,are very popular. Most brides and grooms find it fun to use their creativity planning a theme wedding as central point of both ceremony and reception.
Just like the color scheme, the wedding theme is evident everywhere. attire, invitation, flowers, entertainment, favors and even the linens and food, The decoration, the wedding accessories, the wedding cake or alternatives with their theme cake toppers, the table centerpieces and even the wedding favors speak of the wedding theme chosen by the bride and groom. are coordinated to carry out a chosen theme. The most popular in the order of popularity are initials and monograms, the date especially if it is of consecutive numbers as mentioned above, personal heritage, seasons, flowers and butterflies, life style and holidays.
Family weddings center around the children and becoming a blending family. Thus, parents planning a blending family wedding, assure that their children will be a well represented part of the wedding theme. When age and ability appropriate, the bride and groom include the children in the wedding planning, with special participation in the ceremony, and inviting friends as well.
Accessories for Theme Weddings
Whether dictated by the couple's interests, background or location, the bride and groom like to have their photo album, guest book, unity candles, pen set, flower basket, ring pillow, bridal purse - money bag, garter, cake top, centerpieces, flutes and cake servers as well as their and decorations present their theme. In fact, the trend is to have as many accessories actually match as a set or a collection, rather than just complement.
Where to buy wedding accessories and Choices
There are many options to purchasing wedding needs, from attire to accessories. The most obvious and traditional being bridal salons. Yet, according to couples we interviewed, shopping on the Internet is definitely the most profound wedding trend of the 21st Century. Most went googling to find exactly what they want, often finding unique items they did not know were available. The general consensus was that they do not know how they would have planned or pulled their wedding together, without the Internet. Brides and grooms, as well as those looking for wedding gifts and bridal accessories for them, use it and find it easy, convenient and safe. Quite a few interviewees said that they actually count on the Internet because they are just too busy. Brides and grooms actually enjoy getting together, sitting in front of the screen, to read articles to get ideas and choose what they want.
Once decided, they found that purchasing on line not only saves them money, gasoline, travel, running from store to store, standing in lines and aggravation but their orders are delivered directly to their homes or work. The majority said that they love it! especially since the Internet offers high security shopping carts, that can be checked before any purchase is made. The trend by most shoppers is to check and comparison-shop online first even if they intend to buy in a brick and mortar store. The Internet also introduces items available only on-line.
Some items are so unique they can be purchased only on a specific web site.
It is interesting to mention that we have experienced a surge in gift givers buying wedding items, including complete accessory collections, to be shipped with a gift card to a bride.
Whether you are a trendsetter or follow the current trends, I hope you gained some insight from this article.
Copyrights © 2007 All Rights Reserved Nily Glaser, of A-wedding Day at: http://www.a-weddingday.com" and Gan Publishing
Nily Glaser, the CEO of A-wedding Day. She writes important articles, and has presented workshops for wedding professionals all over the USA.
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